I CHANGED my thinking on the whole subject of what it is to be ATTRACTIVE. It's FINE, but I know that ULTIMATELY what I am and who I am is not cheekbones and a jawline, if you catch my drift. I ultimately know that who I am is not DIRECTLY proportional to abs or straight teeth.
Read MoreMy husband recently made me TRY on a BIKINI. A bikini is not so much a garment as a cloth-based reminder that your parts have been migrating all these years. My WAIST, I realized that DAY in the dressing room, has completely disappeared BENEATH my rib cage, which now rests directly on my hips. I'm exhibiting continental drift in reverse.
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