Most cultures believe, and most religions believe, that there is a SPIRIT, there is a SOUL, there is something that happens when we die where this spirit leaves our BODY.
You become a better dater when you have a TRULY fulfilling life that is not DEPENDENT on someone else. EVEN if someone LEAVES, your life continues unscathed.
Liberation from MEANING leaves US skeptical of truth itself, comfortable only to acknowledge 'your truth' and 'my truth,' confident only in the REALITY of subjective FEELING rather than objective FACT.