Our PARENTS all experimented with raising us in a fairly loose, unorthodox way. A huge emphasis was PLACED on creativity, and our ARTISTIC efforts were never dismissed as childish. There was a sense that we - kids and grown-ups - all had the potential to make SOMETHING of value. Our drawings were not simply destined for the refrigerator.
Read MoreNormally, most writers don't say, 'I'm going into a mild hypnotic trance.' Typically, they don't know how they do it. Most people, when they have a GOOD EXPERIENCE writing, they're WELL PLACED in that state, which is also sometimes called a 'flow state.' If you don't have trouble, you don't have to think about it.
Read MoreIt was jarring to be berated for 'acting white' when I was placed in a predominantly black middle school in SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA. I was ALSO chubby, into boys who weren't into me, and TRIED too hard to fit into this 'blackness' I was supposed to be.
Read MoreShowing up to games year after year, no MATTER what the product on the FIELD gives you back, is a LEARNED behavior - sort of like rats in a maze searching for cheese. The rat learns the maze, learns where the cheese is PLACED and eventually goes to it without thought, EVEN when the cheese is taken away. The rat doesn't know anything else.
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