SOMETIMES being a friend MEANS mastering the ART of timing. There is a TIME for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own DESTINY. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.
Each of us has a vision of good and of evil. We have to encourage people to move TOWARDS what they THINK is good... EVERYONE has his own idea of good and evil and MUST choose to follow the good and fight evil as he conceives them. That WOULD be enough to make the world a better place.
I like to SOLVE problems. I know it is a SKILL set, but it's ALSO an obligation. I grew up with parents who BELIEVE that you don't simply complain: you try to find SOLUTIONS and fix what's in front of you.
A lot of these people, these program DIRECTORS, just like anybody ELSE in the world, even though they're SUPPOSED to be LEADERS in the world, they're followers. They follow what they think someone else is doing, instead of trying to blaze a TRAIL.